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Savage Love: Truth Be Told
by Dan Savage When I was 15, I had a three-month-long sexual relationship with a 32-year-old woman. She was a friend of the family, and my parents were going through a divorce.…[ Read more ][...
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Savage Love: Loving Couples
by Dan Savage I'm a straight guy in my 30s dating a woman in her mid-20s. We've been together for a year, and I'm crazy about her.…[ Read more ][ Subscribe to the comments on this story ]
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Savage Love: Massive Cock Blocks
by Dan Savage I found this in an online sex ad: “Straight guy with an addiction to massive cocks in my ass.” This “straight guy” went on to mention his girlfriend. Can a person really identify as...
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Savage Love: Never Enough
by Dan Savage I think my husband is addicted to porn. I find porn in his browser history almost every single day.…[ Read more ][ Subscribe to the comments on this story ]
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Savage Love: Kinky Boys
by Dan Savage I'm a straight male kinkster who used to do live performances as a rope bondage top, but I recently jumped out of the kink community. I just think I'll have better luck finding a...
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Savage Love: Angry Girls and Diaper Pals
by Dan Savage I consider myself a straight guy — but for the last four years, I've been having an affair with "Connie," a trans girl I met online. It was just casual at first, but over time we...
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Savage Love: Virgin Territory
by Dan Savage I'm an American woman living abroad and have started a relationship with a wonderful man from a Middle Eastern country. We are having a great time exploring what is a foreign country for...
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Savage Love: Age Play
by Dan Savage My partner is 31 years older than I am. I know the math: He'll be 60 when I'm 29.…[ Read more ][ Subscribe to the comments on this story ]
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Savage Love: Teaching Moment
by Dan Savage Last summer, I reconnected with a high-school teacher I hadn't seen for a year. We first met when I was 15, and I had nothing but respect for him and his intelligence.…[ Read more ][...
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Savage Love: Fixated
by Dan Savage My wife is one of those women who need manual stimulation of her clit during sex to climax. Before meeting her, I had several long-term girlfriends, and not one needed to do this in...
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Savage Love: Car Talk
by Dan Savage Yesterday, I found my 5-year-old son putting things up his butt in the bath. This isn't the first time — and it's not just a "Hey!…[ Read more ][ Subscribe to the comments on this story ]
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Savage Love: Aced Out
by Dan Savage You often mention asexual people. I believe I may be one.…[ Read more ][ Subscribe to the comments on this story ]
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Savage Love: The Affairs
by Dan Savage I'm a 35-year-old divorced man. I've been on plenty of dates since my marriage ended, but I invariably get asked this question on or before date #2: "Why did you get divorced?" This is...
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Savage Love: Transitions
by Dan Savage A big congrats to Caitlyn Jenner on her big reveal and lovely Vanity Fair cover! But I am having a crisis of conscience.…[ Read more ][ Subscribe to the comments on this story ]
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Savage Love: Jackhammer
by Dan Savage My boyfriend and I both spent a lot of time masturbating when we were young, and pretty much trained our brains to come only one way. He can only come from masturbating furiously, or...
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Savage Love: Better Off Without
by Dan Savage I am a male grad student who is technically engaged to a female grad student. She has numerous positive qualities, but she is repulsed by sex.…[ Read more ][ Subscribe to the comments on...
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Savage Love: Gymnastics
by Dan Savage This is going to sound like bragging, but my appearance is intrinsic to my kink. I'm a gay male gymnast.…[ Read more ][ Subscribe to the comments on this story ]
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Savage Love: Disunion
by Dan Savage I entered into a civil union with another woman in Vermont in 2000. My ex and I were together until 2003, when we decided to go our separate ways.…[ Read more ][ Subscribe to the...
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Savage Love: Quick Hits
by Dan Savage I have been happily married for 12 years. I'm deeply in love with my wife—she's amazing, very sexy and gorgeous.…
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Savage Love: Soft Service
by Dan Savage My wife and I have been together for more than 10 years, practicing some kind of nonmonogamy for more than seven. We tried different things — open, dating others, FWBs — but after a...
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